5 Keys to Harmony for 2011

2010 was full of milestones, celebratory moments, and also a few difficult times.  Through many global travels and events, we are looking back and still smiling, celebrating, and counting our many blessings.   With that being stated and knowing that many of us are still looking for resolutions, here are 5 tips to personal and professional success that we wanted to share based off our experiences from 2010.

1. Don’t take anything for granted!  Health, friends, family, faith, and balance are all priorities in life and should be nurtured daily.  Treat your life like any of these can be stolen from you in the blink of an eye.  Knowing how fragile life can be and that trials will come, live in a way that you won’t have regrets and with a mentality that there is always a rainbow on the other side of a storm.

2.  Plan ahead!  Think about where you want to be and put a list together in order to achieve that.  Pray over your lists and for wisdom on your decision making.  Organize your thoughts!  Don’t let a day go by without reanalyzing your to-do lists, your vision, and your professional or personal goals.  Lastly, don’t be afraid to try something new.

3.  Respect everyone!  We learned a lot about this last year so here is the simple lesson that we will share with you.  Treat all people like they are royalty regardless of their title, their position in life, or their race or gender.  Listen first, engage conversation with colleagues, use common etiquette, and don’t respond to anger.  This my friends will put you in harmony with humanity.

4. Don’t lose touch of what’s important!  We were reminded several times in 2010 that we need to get back to our roots of what drives us.  When we did that, it was very enlightening and motivating.  So whether it’s a value, personal or financial goals, family, or how you do something…constantly find time to reach back and remind yourself of what’s truly important.  Work is important and should be somewhere in your top 3 or top 5, but it shouldn’t be #1 on your list.  Remember that being happy personally makes you a better professional.

5. Enjoy a balanced life!  It’s easy for most of us to put work before anything else and pending your profession, this may be necessary on a lot of days.  It’s also easy to get stressed over family, health, jobs, or finances.   Overcome that stress by finding your happy place daily.  Take time to count your blessings, enjoy your coffee by watching the sunrise, go for a walk, run or do yoga, listen to your favorite music, write in your journal, spend time with your children, read a scripture and pray, or find something that makes you laugh on a daily basis.  If your daily personal balance practices aren’t working, look into a monthly or quarterly refresh by going to the salon, going on an affordable weekend getaway, golf outing with friends, or just sitting on the couch watching movies all weekend.  If you still can’t find that balance, read #4 again.

Good luck in 2011 and stay tuned for more Harmonious Events blogs in the upcoming weeks.

An Organized Ant

How do you ever know that you are ready for an event? As much as you prepare and no matter how many countless hours are logged leading up to that big day, you never seem to have the "I'm ready" feeling. From small meetings to large multi-day productions, it all works the same; the event management team is always scrambling into the wee hours of the morning the day before. Finishing scripts, prepping training materials for staff, deploying security, preparing checks for vendors, creating last minute signage, or changing site maps are just a few things that seem to pop up at the last minute. The key to a successful and low stress event is recognizing that many elements will come up last minute and a seasoned planner will manage and trouble-shoot as much as possible to limit the stress that can occur in on-site execution.

I must say that hustling at the last minute is not a bad thing and would offer up that a key essential to great on-site execution starts with the sweat, tears, and blood shed in the days prior to an event. Just a month ago, leading up to a conference we were preparing for in San Francisco, I told my colleagues that I would much rather catch mistakes in the early planning and put in the late hours in the pre-planning phases fixing potential issues rather than allowing them to pop up while we are on-site. The old saying: "preparing today promotes success tomorrow" is totally true. Any event that doesn't have a struggle or an over abundance of work done in the pre-planning is an event waiting to fail on site!

What I love seeing during an event is watching all the details coming together in harmony! It is the feeling of sitting back and watching it all flow into it's proper place. If you have ever paid attention to an ant colony, you may understand this next analogy. Looking at an ant farm, there are hundreds of ants going in all different directions. However each ant is playing a role in either building their home or scouting food for the colony. I would like to think is that their "big event" is bringing food into the colony. The scouter ant goes out and finds the food. What is amazing to see is the organization that happens after the food is located. The ants disperse in a single file line and return to the colony in a single file line...all carrying food! How in the world can the chaos happening "pre-feast" turn into an organized hunt, gather, and feast! The pre-planning of an event often times feels like many different ants going in different directions building the colony. But the actual event comes into the place in sequential order just like the ants bringing food back to the colony.

On-site execution of an event is definitely entertaining to watch! However, it only happens harmoniously, if the proper planning that we call "organized chaos" happens on the front end! The next time you see an ant, I hope that you take the time to appreciate the organization of the event that they are putting on!

Behind the Scenes

Have you ever heard the phrase, "being in the zone"? This phrase is usually applicable for individuals performing or working on a public stage...athletes, debaters, writers, brokers, speakers, entertainers...etc. But what phrase should be used for the average "Joe" that is also performing a job function behind the scenes? Why don't we see more descriptor accolades given to an administrator who has knocked a writing of a presentation out of the park, construction workers who have completed an architectural phenomenon in record time, or a cleaning/maintenance company that continues to keep our national monuments clean day after day! What about the mindset of the staff that supports the society's most well known individuals such as producers, camera men, scriptwriters, and consultants? Yes, these individuals are just as important and are still recognized, but on a smaller forum and usually privately.

What drives an individual to be successful in the public eye? What motivates and drives this person to execute above average? What is needed to block out distractions when needing to meet a deadline, complete a job, or win a game? These are all motivating questions for the individuals on the public stage! However, is the mindset any different for that individual in the public forum verses behind the scenes...NO! But for me, I refer to "being in the zone" to being in harmony.

Being in harmony with my daily job of planning events is to be in tune with God. Harmony, a term used to describe the sound of various sounds blending to make one noise, can also be used for various people and circumstances coming together for one outcome. To understand this concept is to believe that there is a God and that HE is in full control of all events happening in the planning of a production. God is ultimately the orchestrator of everything I do, so when a daily task as simple as putting a load-in schedule together, I rely on God to provide me with the mindset of everything that needs to go on that schedule. When a curve ball or unexpected crisis happens, it does not mean it's not in harmony, it means that I must trust God that this plan is in harmony with the outcome of the event. So for me to be in harmony with God for what is happening behind the scenes directly impacts the outcome of what happens on stage.

Harmony only comes when I am humble to the fact that I am behind the scenes, not get caught up in negativity, and understanding that my wisdom comes from experience and God. Harmony is when all past and future events are in alignment, whether good or bad. Harmonious Events was developed on the premise that God is the owner of Harmonious and I am managing the Events behind the scenes.